Get everyone talking

I've read some great conversation-starter ideas lately that I want to share. We usually talk about these things at dinner, but you can do them anytime your family is together. Couples without kids can do these too!

The first idea is from the book I'm reading, "7 Habits of Highly Effective Families." There was a suggestion to go around the table every night saying something positive about one family member. Last Friday, things were tense for some reason and I decided to start the tradition with Ryan, who I hoped would change his attitude before his football game that night. Mike, Kaylin and I each said something positive about him and he was absolutely beaming. His whole countanence changed, as did the mood of the table. Saturday it was Mike's turn and today was Kaylin. (she even said something nice about herself) We'll just keep going down the list!

Then this morning, I saw this idea on Sarah Mae's blog. Every day, she asks her daughter the same four questions:
What made you happy today?
What made you feel sad today?
What made you feel angry today?
What brought you joy today?

We went around the dinner table asking these questions tonight and it sparked some awesome conversations and insight into our kids' days. Kaylin's "What made you feel angry today?" answer was when Mike left for work and Ryan left for school before she woke up so she didn't get to kiss them good-bye. It didn't make her sad, it actually made her angry. I found that interesting. And next time she sleeps in, I'll make sure everyone wakes her up to give her a hug and a kiss.

The last idea is one I heard years ago. It's along the same lines, but a little more simplified. It's called, "Gratefuls and Grumbles." Everyone in the family shares something that they're grateful for and something that made the "grumble" during the day.

Does anyone else have an idea of a good conversation starter that works for your family?