Friday, November 28, 2008

Over Achiever

Is that one word or two? Overachiever? I'm not sure. Anyway...

I am one. At least at this exact moment. This weekend, I have been a creative whirlwind.

I mentioned that I make my own Christmas cards, right? Well, I've never waited until Thanksgiving weekend to make them. Until a couple of days ago, I didn't even have a design in mind. (all of you procrastinators just gasped with sarcasm, didn't you???)

I conceived the idea for my Christmas cards on Wednesday morning and was semi-motivated to get started. Sticking to Mike's non-household-budget "spending freeze," I was determined to only use supplies that I currently have to make my cards. Which means the cards were a rainbow of colors, using leftover cardstock that is Christmas-y or winter-ish.

After rummaging through my supplies to use up what I have on hand, I began printing the main message of "still merry" on the cards. Around card 8, my printer went on strike. Grrr........


Plan B. I borrowed a pretty scripted "celebrate" stamp from a friend. Stamps take so much more time than hitting PRINT on my keyboard, but what are you gonna do?

And so, on Thursday morning, the assembly line began. Stamp, stamp, stamp, stamp, fold, fold, fold, fold, measure, measure, measure, measure, cut, cut, cut, cut, punch, punch, punch, punch...THIS is why I usually begin my cards in September.



I even did a little insert with our picture on one side and a short update on the other. (my printer fixed itself, then broke again, then fixed itself...I cursed myself for printing my own pictures to save money...)



But, lo and behold, in two days, I have not only finished making my cards, but they are stuffed and in labeled envelopes, ready to be mailed.

Now, I have to forewarn some of you that you won't be getting a card from me this year. I know, I know, it's sad, but I got over it, so you should too. I went to buy stamps the other day and when I realized that I'd be paying a week's groceries on postage for 120 cards, I axed half of you. Sorry, but it had to be done. And those of you that live locally, expect your card to be hand-delivered next time I see you. If I sit and clip coupons and scout out the sales in the grocery fliers to save $5, you'd better believe it's worth it to NOT mail a dozen cards to save the same $5! Feel free to call me cheap, just not to my face. Because my husband's unemployed...I may have a weak moment and burst into tears on you, appearing oversensitive, and no one needs that guilt!

Where did that rant come from? I just wanted to show off my cool card design and brag about my ADD super efficient holiday weekend! Anyway, I hope you have all thought about making or sending cards, emails or e-cards this year. Your friends and family will appreciate them!!!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Expressing Thankfulness

Is anyone else REALLY excited about turkey tomorrow? I look forward to this indulgence all year long.

I usually throw out some random, useless facts to discuss around your holiday table, but I thought I'd do something a little different this year. I just came across this great list of ways to express your thankfulness this Thanksgiving season.

Because if you practice a thankful attitude, you will have a more cheerful heart. And if you complain less, you will be more content. So look inside of yourself this weekend and focus on the blessings in your life.

Some suggestions for helping your family have a heart of gratitude:

- After your Thanksgiving meal, go around the table listening to each person say what they're thankful for from the past year. To take this a step farther, record what everyone says in a notebook and keep a log each year.

- Create a "thankful tree" or a "thankful turkey" and add either leaves or feathers made from construction paper with things written that you're thankful for.

- If you're hosting the Thanksgiving meal, provide disposable containers for your guests to take home leftovers.

- Read Psalm 100 in unison

- Give your kids money on Thanksgiving Day and instruct them to help someone else in the name of Jesus and tell the family what they did on Christmas Eve.

If you have other fun ideas, leave a comment and share them with us!

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!!!

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

12th Day of Christmas - Advent

Is the 12th day already here? I hope you enjoyed this series and are more excited about Christmas than when we began two weeks ago. Only 29 days until Christmas...are you ready???

For this post, I saved the best (and most important) for last. For those of you who are Christians, the focus of your family's Christmas needs to be on Christ. With kids and lots of hussle and bustle, this has to be something very intentional that you choose to do.

Here are some great ways to refocus your family's attention on Jesus.

1. The Jesse Tree. This idea originated from Isaiah 11:1-2, which refers to the fact that Jesus would be born from the line of David, whose father's name was Jesse. Instead of re-typing the whole premise, check out this link for Simple Mom's explanation. You can also reference http://www.jesse-trees.com/ or check out books like "The Advent Jesse Tree" by Dean Meador Lambert or "The Jesse Tree" by Geraldine McCaughrean.


2. A traditional Advent Calendar. Advent means to celebrate that which is coming (the birth of Christ). There are many ways you can celebrate using an Advent Calendar. If you want to do something a little deeper than opening a door each day and pulling out a piece of chocolate, purchase (or make) a calendar with pockets or larger holes behind the doors. Write out notes to stick in each pocket. The note could contain a passage of Scripture, a family activity or challenge or a fun fact about the true meaning of Christmas.


3. An Advent Wreath. If a daily calendar is too much for you, consider an Advent Wreath, which is celebrated for the 4 Sundays prior to Christmas. The instructions for what you need for this project come from Secrets to Getting More Done in Less Time by Donna Otto:

- Buy or a make a wreath and place four candles around or in the wreath and one candle in the center of the wreath

- On the Saturday before the first Sunday in Advent, a prayer is said and some conversation about the use of the wreath is suggested. Usually the head of the family is resonsible for this time, as well as the lighting of the candles.

- On the 4th Sunday before Christmas, light the first candle. This candle is the Prophecy Candle. Verses to be shared are: Luke 1:30-31, Isaiah 2:1-5; 11:1-9; 40:3-11. If you do this before a meal, the candle can be left burning throughout the meal.

- On the 3rd Sunday before Christmas, light the second candle. This candle is the Bethlehem Candle. Verses to be shared are Luke 2:24 and Isaiah 7:13-14.

- On the 2nd Sunday before Christmas, light the third candle. This candle is named the Shepherd's Candle. Verses to be shared are Luke 2:8-20, Matthew 2:1-12 and John 5:30-47.

- On the Sunday before Christmas, light the Angel's Candle. Verses to read are Luke 2:1-7, Matthew 2:13-23 and John 3:16-21.

- On Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, light the Christ Candle, the candle in the center. Select appropriate spiritual readings to focus on the birth of Christ.

4. The Advent Book - this is a beautifully illustrated book that walks you through the 24 days of December before Christmas.

5. Check this out:


Thanks for hanging with me during this 12 Days of Christmas Series! I hope you got some good tips and will be able to incorporate some of the ideas that were shared. Go enjoy your Thanksgiving tomorrow and remember to wear your comfy, stretchy pants!!!

Monday, November 24, 2008

11th Day of Christmas - Christmas craft ideas for kids

Does anyone else love Christmas crafting with their kids? Most of these take less than 30 minutes to do and your kids will enjoy spending quality time with you. Pick one or two and put a time on the calendar to do these this December!

Edible crafts:
* Snowman Pretzel Sticks
* Cinnamon Ornaments - Last year, Ryan's teacher had them put a paperclip through the top before baking them and added a ribbon to hang on the tree. Ryan tripped while carrying his ornament home that day and it shattered into a million pieces. We'll try again this year!
* A mini-"gingerbread" house made from graham crackers (this one's easy for even the 1-year olds to help create)
* String popcorn on a long string to make garland for the tree

Christmas card ideas:
* Handprint Santa
* Thumbprint Reindeer

Other crafts:
* Gift bags - either Reindeer or Snowman
* Rudolf Handprint
* Paper Snowflake Cutouts, just like when we were kids - just fold a square piece of white paper in different directions and let your kids cut on the folds to create a "snowflake" to hang from the ceiling or in the window

There are a bunch of additional ideas on the Family Fun website. Again, don't be overwhelmed by these ideas...just do something fun and crafty (and Christmas-y) with your kids. You'll be glad you made those memories for them!

Do you have a favorite Christmas craft? Leave a comment, post it on your blog and paste the link into Mr. Linky below or link directly to a site that explains the craft.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Oreo Turkey Craft



What you'll need:
- Oreos
- Whoppers or Junior Mints
- Candy Corns (bags are 5/$1 at my nearest store)
- Frosting (for "glue")
- Mini chocolate chips for eyes
- Red Licorice for the gobbler (we omitted)

Instructions:
- Unscrew an Oreo
- Eat both halves
- Unscrew another Oreo and start over
- Press 3-5 candy corns (into the side of the Oreo that has the cream left on it) as "feathers"
- Eat a few candy corns
- Spread some frosting on the side of the Oreo that doesn't have any cream on it
- Lick the frosting knife. Twice.
- Use some frosting as "glue" to press the feathered Oreo side to stand up on a flat Oreo
- Eat another Oreo
- Press a Whopper or Junior Mint into the intersection of the cookies as the "head" of the turkey
- Eat a Whopper (or Junior Mint)
- Put a little frosting on the ends of 2 chocolate chips and place them on the head as "eyes"
- Toss a handful of chocolate chips into your mouth
- Put a little frosting on a broken candy corn and place it in front of the head as a "beak"
- Allow the turkeys to sit for a while so the frosting can dry
- Eat another Oreo while your turkey dries. Or make another turkey. Or both.







ENJOY!

10th Day of Christmas - Theme Days

I'm a big fan of Theme Days. You may remember last month when I declared every day for a week a Colored Theme to teach Kaylin her colors.

Last year, I had high hopes of doing several different Theme Days in December, but they didn't happen. Well, one did. We had "G Day" - kind of by accident, and it was fun. I recently ran across a homeschooling blog that had ideas for every letter of the alphabet (plus teachable, pre-school activities) and I can't find it for the life of me. If anyone knows what I'm talking about, please leave me a comment with the website address!

Niki at Free to be Frugal just posted a link to watch 101 Christmas Classics at this site. (you'll notice that movies go along with most of my theme days...)


A few other ideas for "Theme Days" include:
- "S" day (stir fry, sledding, The Santa Clause movie)
- "H" day (hamburgers, hot chocolate, Home Alone movies)
- "C" day (cinnamon rolls, chicken fingers, Christmas cookies, A Christmas Carol movie)
- "P" day (pink piggie pancakes, PB&J, pepporoni pizza, popcorn, Polar Express movie)
- "Green" day (wear green, add green food coloring or pureed green veggies to foods throughout the day, make Wreath Christmas Cookies, watch The Grinch)
- "Starbucks & Stories" night (go grab a drink and tell everyone about your favorite Christmas stories)

Do you have any other ideas for Theme Days? Tell us in the comments.

Friday, November 21, 2008

8th Day of Christmas - Homemade Gifts


I like doing homemade, personalized gifts when I can, but sometimes the whole concept of the "time value of money" makes certain things SO not worth it.

For instance, I don't knit. I've heard it's pretty easy and mindless, but still - how many hours does it take to knit a sweater? I can't imagine. But then again, I scrapbook, so I shouldn't be one to discuss the idea of spending tons of time on projects!

As a general rule, we can assume that homemade gifts are less expensive (and often more thoughtful) than store-bought. If money is tight this year, but your gift-giving list is still pretty long, consider making something for your friends and family.

Here are some ideas for homemade Christmas gifts:
- a family photo in a frame
- an online photo book - there are tons of companies out there, but Inkubook is offering a free digital scrapbook to get people to try out their site - you only have to pay shipping! It's not the easiest site out there, but it's FREE, so potentially worth the hassle. (They have a "cookbook" template option and I'm in the process of making a "Family Recipes" cookbook with all the pictures I've taken for recipes for my blog - how fun is that? Now I'm SO glad I've blogged my favorite recipes over the last few months!)
- month-by-month calendars with family pictures printed for each month and important dates typed into the calendar (I usually print these from home, but when time was tight last year, Kinko's did a great job for me)
- write a letter or a list of all the reasons someone means what they mean to you, print it on nice stationary and frame it
- if you sew, you can gift people with a quilt, an apron, tutus for little girls (or try the no sew tutu I made), the possibilities are endless
- if you're a scrapbooker, make a mini scrapbook for someone, filled with pictures and memories
- along those same lines, if you do other paper crafts, make an assortment of greeting cards that are blank inside for the recipient to give to others - 2 of each type: birthday, thank you, get well, Christmas, all occasion, etc.
- there are tons of beautifully layered gift-in-a-jar ideas from cookie mixes to soups to cocoa - click here, here and here for recipes and other details, or google "gift in a jar recipes"
- make a jar of scented bath salts
- there are countless ideas for themed baskets filled with things the recipient enjoys: an assortment of coffee or tea with a mug and accessories, baking goods with a wooden spoon or rolling pin, bath/relaxation kit, a movie theme with a DVD, popcorn and other munchies, get creative and when all else fails, google ideas!
- this blog also has another dozen homemade gift ideas and this site has another 34 homemade gift ideas for all ability levels

I'll link again to the huge list of recipes for cakes, cookies and candy that I posted before. All would make great homemade gifts for extended family, neighbors or as hostess gifts for parties you attend!

What kinds of homemade gifts do you plan to give or have received over the years? I know there are lots more ideas out there...come on...out with 'em!

Thursday, November 20, 2008

7th Day of Christmas - Homemade Neighbor Gifts

So how many of you intend to plan a Cookie Exchange??? Well, even if you don't, I strongly encourage you to get in the kitchen with your family (younger kids, sisters, your mom...anyone) and bake something this Christmas season.

Until I married a human garbage disposal my sweet husband, I always gave away my baked goods. In college, I was the favorite neighbor! I truly find baking to be therapeutic. I don't mind taste-testing either, but eating all the goods doesn't do my waistline any good, so I prefer to give away my desserts.

This is a great way to get out of the house and meet your neighbors. Traditionally, people seem to give Christmas cookies in those little tins you can buy at the dollar store. Personally, the tins are never big enough for me and my goodies. I've upgraded to gift bags. I line them with waxed paper, stack the cookies and top it with tissue. Then I let the recipient put the cookies in their own tupperware. (is that mean?) I found some really cute, open baskets at the dollar store last month, so that's how I'll deliver this year's Christmas gifts.

If you're wanting to go simple, bake a loaf of banana bread or some pumpkin chocolate chip muffins. If you're wanting to try something new, here are lists of every recipe for cakes, cookies and candy that you could ever want or hope for.

So what are you still doing here? GO! Find a recipe worth baking and sharing!!!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

6th Day of Christmas - Time for an Exchange!

I bake a lot in December. And by a lot, I really mean like, daily. So you know I love a good Cookie Exchange.

The idea of a Cookie Exchange is to make a certain number of cookies (say, 6 dozen of the same variety) and go home from the exchange with 6 dozen different kinds of cookies; 1 dozen of 6 different recipes. This is great to do right before having family in town or if you're throwing a Christmas party. It's easier to triple the recipe for one kind of cookie and make sheet after sheet after sheet of them. But it's much more fun to serve a variety of treats to your guests.

A warning about Cookie Exchanges: beware of inviting your non-baking friends! I attended one party where I baked dozens of amazing cookies and received back a bag of 12 tiny pieces of peanut brittle from one friend and 12 - count 'em only twelve - pretzel hugs from another. I gave her 12 cookies, she gave me 12 mini-pretzels. I can pop 12 chocolate-covered pretzels in my mouth before you're done reading this post! Come on, people!!! Then there was the year one of the participants baked 12 scones. Not 12 per person, just 12, so each of the 6 of us got TWO. The math doesn't always add up (I baked 72 cookies and got back 60 cookies and 2 scones...she baked 12 scones and left with 72 cookies???) - just know that things like that will likely happen, unless all of your friends are Martha Stewart wanna-be's.

Okay, now that I've gotten my Cookie Exchange trauma stories off my chest, I'll stop complaining.

Back to the challenge: consider planning a Cookie Exchange with some friends or neighbors this year. Pick a date, call some ladies and enjoy coffee, Christmas music and conversation for a couple of hours some Sunday afternoon.

Now that I've scared you OUT of doing an exchange (*sorry!*) - I am excited to give you an amazing secret recipe. *prepare yourself* One of my baking-crazed friends, Sari, searched high and low for THE BEST sugar cookie recipe on the planet. Her ideal cookie wasn't the crispy, thin cookies that snap when you bite them. Oh no...we're talking the thick, Lofthouse-type cookies that are sold in the bakery section of most grocery stores. My friends, she baked many, many sugar cookie recipes to find this gem that I'm about to share with you. They are...divine. And the best part is that you don't have to refrigerate the dough for 2 hours before making them! Grab a pen...this is a keeper...

THE BEST fluffy, soft, thick Sugar Cookies
1 ½ c. sugar
1 c. butter
1 egg
1 t. vanilla
1 c. milk
4 ½ c. flour
1 ¼ t. baking soda
4 t. baking powder
(yes, that's right...FOUR teaspoons!)

Preheat oven to 350. Cream sugar, butter and egg. Mix dry ingredients, then add them to the wet mixture. Add milk and vanilla. Roll out the dough pretty thick - about half an inch. The key is to roll out the dough with lots of flour (at the beginning, I usually even have to flour my rolling pin between each roll…the dough can get pretty gooey - expect for your hands to be coated with flour), cut with your shapes using cookie cutters, lay the cookies about an inch apart on a parchment lined baking sheet (they grow and rise in the oven) and bake 8-10 minutes. Store in a tightly sealed container.

These freeze well!

Frosting

(double the following recipe for a thicker frosting layer on the cookies)
2 c. powdered sugar
1/3 c. butter, softened
½ t. vanilla
1-2 T. milk

Do you have a favorite cookie recipe? Come on. Please share...your grandmother will never know. You can leave a comment or participate in an online recipe exchange at Jon and Tom's Place: here.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

5th Day of Christmas - Meaningful Ornaments

Today's idea piggie-backs onto the Christmas traditions idea post from yesterday. The first year Ryan was born, I found some cute picture frame ornaments and filled them as gifts for both grandparents. I thought enough to buy myself one, too, and so the tradition began.

Each year, I take my favorite picture of each of my kids and put it in a photo frame ornament to hang on our tree. I've tried to find frames that have the year on them, otherwise I use rub-ons from my scrapbooking supplies and put the year on the back. The kids LOVED finding their pictures on the tree last year. They'd search the tree, find them, and just stare in awe...it was hilarious.

Here is another cute idea: a great way to document your kids' annual wish lists using a spool of thread. (pictured on the right)

I also love this idea from Becky Higgins. It's more complicated than buying a pre-made frame ornament, and my life doesn't need more complications right now! Maybe I'll attempt these later in life. I know, they look easy enough for a crafty person like myself, but I'm intimidated for some reason...
One more idea for you: I can't remember when I started this, but I have resigned to make my vacation souvenirs all Christmas ornaments. My first trip to Phoenix resulted in an ornament of Santa with a cowboy hat, standing next to a cactus. I have a double decker bus from London, a Scottie dog from Scotland, Santa wearing a hula skirt and playing a hand drum from Hawaii, my tree is full of vacation memories. It's fun decorating the tree each year and strolling down memory lane...
Do YOU have a meaningful ornament idea to share? Tell us in the comments!

Monday, November 17, 2008

1 cent Snapfish photo cards - expires 11/23

According to The Good Deal Gal:

"Snapfish is offering 20 4x8 photo cards for only 1-cent each. You can choose from over 100 different holiday designs. When checking out, enter the coupon code CARD08 to receive the discount. Offer expires 11/23/08."

4th Day of Christmas - Family Traditions

Oooh...I love traditions. LOVE them! Traditions are a great way to express your love for your family. This weekend, our pastor spoke about creating experiences for your family to remember this Christmas. Think back to your childhood: are your favorite memories gifts or experiences? Traditions are really powerful memory makers.

BUT you can get so wrapped up in traditions that it ruins the fun for yourself and others. Or the mass of ideas overwhelms you and you do nothing.

My challenge for you is to pick a just a few traditions...even ONE if you get intimidated by things like this...and stick with it. Every year. No matter what.

Last year, I begged for ideas for Christmas traditions (to see all of the suggestions, peek at the comments in this post from last December). Ryan was old enough to start picking a few fun ones and I was totally in the mood to bring on the good cheer!

The first tradition I started for my entire family was Pie Night. A friend told me that her family does this and I stole borrowed it and set a date for our Pie Night the next day. Pie Night (for us) will fall sometime between Thanksgiving and early December. Now that my cousins are married with in laws and holiday rotation schedules, I've noticed that there are some years that I don't see certain people except on Easter. Pie Night solves that issue! No big meal to plan around, just pie, games and fun.

Another thing I created a few years after we got married was a Christmas scrapbook. (another idea borrowed from Becky Higgins) Now, don't tune out if you don't scrapbook...this doesn't need to be fancy. Mine is an 8x8 album that highlights my Christmas card (I make them every year), the Christmas letter/highlights for each person and either our family Christmas picture or some choice pictures from the year. It ends up being a "Year in Review" album that I know I'll cherish later in life. And I only need to scrapbook 2 facing pages PER YEAR to keep up this tradition.






This year, I'm looking forward to starting a "Christmas camping" tradition. The idea is to "camp" around the lit Christmas tree the same evening your family decorates it. I know my kids are going to love that!

Another idea I've considered is giving my kids a predictable annual gift. Maybe a new, age-appropriate book for each child. Or new PJs on Christmas Eve that they can open and wear (they look nicer in the Christmas morning pictures than the raggedy, ghetto jammies they've been wearing all winter!) or something along those lines.

Admittedly, I don't think we've done a good job of centering our family Christmas around Christ. But over the last week or so, I've taken note of some great ideas given to us from our church and other Christian sources to bring the focus of Christmas back on Jesus and His birth. Beginning this year, we intend to model the true importance of this holiday for my kids.

Here are some other ideas you might like...

* Throw a birthday party for Jesus on Christmas Eve, complete with candles and singing the birthday song.

* String lights in your child's bedroom or let them decorate a small tree in their rooms.

* Place Christmas cards you receive in a basket near the dinner table. Each night, have a family member select and read a card, then pray for the person who sent the greeting.

* Remove baby Jesus from your nativity scene and "hide" him until Christmas morning. (just remember where you put him or you'll freak your kids out!)

* Take pieces of straw (or even raffia) and tell your family that when you catch them showing kindness, they can place a piece of straw in the manger for baby Jesus. Explain that their acts of kindness help prepare a place for His birth.

* Wrap your front door, your child's bedroom door and/or wrap pictures on the wall in Christmas wrapping paper and a ribbon or big bow.

* Read the Christmas story (Luke 2) to your family before opening gifts Christmas morning or before going to bed Christmas Eve.

Okay, now it's your turn! I want to hear your Christmas traditions. Please leave a comment - others will benefit from your great ideas! You can also post on your blog and paste the web address into the link below.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

3rd Day of Christmas - Have a Simple Christmas

Did you know that we spend $450 BILLION dollars each year on Christmas? With the current state of the economy, and many people out of work or fearing for security of their jobs, I think it's about time we all have a chit chat with our families about having a SIMPLE Christmas.

For the last several years, I've told my extended family members (aunts, cousins, etc.) that our Christmas budget is tight and not to expect gifts. A few times, I suggested the "pick names out of a hat" idea with a dollar limit and gift suggestion list. No one stuck to it, most people still bought everyone $5-10 token items (or $25...or $40...) because my family was stuck on the idea of giving and receiving gifts from every...single...person. Even if it meant going into debt over it.

It's been uncomfortable for them not to buy us gifts, especially my kids. I've stopped the speeches about "we have plenty, please save your money..." because I can't change their minds. I'll never forget the last year I bought my cousins' kids gifts. I shopped around, had a teeny budget for each child, and on Christmas Eve, as they tore off the wrapping paper and saw what was inside, each item was tossed away as they ripped open another gift...a bigger, better gift from other family members with different priorities. I doubt they've even noticed that I haven't bought them gifts for the last couple of years, but I know I've appreciated the money I've saved.

You may even want to consider scaling back on the gifts you give your immediate family. Right after I had Ryan, a broke wise mother of four gave me her secret: 3 gifts per child. Period. She told her kids each year, "Jesus only got three gifts (from the Wise Men) - so do you. Pick carefully." She still allowed the grandparents to give gifts and, if it was age-appropriate, Santa brought a few things as well, but they didn't hide the fact that they couldn't afford much, and they wanted to instill the right values in their kids.

It's hard not to want to keep up with the Jones'. But let's be honest: have you looked at your kids toys lately? Have they!?!?!? They have enough toys, admit it. And I'm not peeking in your windows when I say this. You know I'm right. Be selective, encourage them to be selective, and encourage a spirit of thanksgiving, not one that is spoiled and needy.

For those of you tempted to wake up early for the best deals on Black Friday, plan ahead by checking out these sites. They each post Black Friday deals ahead of time, so you can spend less time flipping through ads on Thanksgiving.

The Black Friday

Black Friday 2008

Black Friday

TGI Black Friday

Black Friday at Gotta Deal

Last month, I read a great blog post from simple mom about How to Budget for Christmas. If you have a tendency to go overboard, take a peek at it. Let's all pay cash for our gifts this year and stay within our means!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

2nd Day of Christmas - Prepare Your Card List

Time to prepare for your Christmas cards! Wait, don't panic...I didn't say, "DO your Christmas cards," I said, "...prepare for." Now is the time to start gathering addresses and taking note of who has moved or whose address you need to make current. 411.com is a great site for looking up lost loved ones, but it's really early enough that you can drop them a quick email and update your address list.

Once you've gathered the addresses, count them. Don't guess how many cards you need when you get to the store or put your order in online...know how many cards you want to send and order the right number. That way, you won't have too many leftover and you won't come up short.

If you like the "photo greeting card" idea, spend a little time researching the online photo printing sites to see who has the best deals and whose formats you like best.

Some sites off the top of my head are...

I'm sure I'm missing some. If you like to do your own Christmas cards and include a picture, read this post to see which companies offer free printing when you sign up with their site.

Another option is to include a wallet-sized family photo, if you're sending a lot of cards and want to save some money. I did this last year because I figured out that at Costco, their 4x6 prints were $.17, but their set of 4 wallets were $.39, so I could send four times as many pictures for only double the cost. And believe me...it added up. I sent over 120 Christmas cards last year! (every cent - or 17 cents - counted!)

If mailing Christmas cards isn't your thing, consider writing a Christmas letter and sending it through email. Or send an online Christmas greeting using Hallmark.com, 123Greetings, Blue Mountain, egreetings, free e-cards or any of the various sites out there.

Whatever you decide, just do something. Let your friends and family know that you love them and are thinking of them this Christmas. I have a few friends who get so overwhelmed with Christmas and the busy-ness of the season, that they send out a New Year's letter instead of a Christmas letter and I have one friend who even does an annual Valentine letter! Even if they're mailed late, your loved ones will appreciate hearing from you.

One last thought: If you want to do something to have your Christmas cards carry a more "authentic" postmark, address them, stamp them, then put them all in a manila envelope and send it in care of the Postmaster in one of these towns: North Pole, Alaska 99705, Santa Claus, Indiana 47579 or Christmas, Florida 32709. They will postmark your cards with the name of their town and send them out from there. Remember to mail these early - add a week to your shipping time to make sure they get to your friends by Christmas.

UPDATE: According to The Good Deal Gal: "Snapfish is offering 20 4x8 photo cards for only 1-cent each. You can choose from over 100 different holiday designs. When checking out, enter the coupon code CARD08 to receive the discount. Offer expires 11/23/08."

Friday, November 14, 2008

12 Days of Christmas - Day 1: Christmas Photos

Yes, I know it's still November, but people...it's time to start thinking about Christmas!!! (if you want to add a cool Christmas countdown icon like I have onto your blog, or any kind of a countdown for that matter, click here)

For the next 12 days (taking you to Thanksgiving, just in time for Black Friday) I will be posting something fun and Christmas-y; maybe a tip, a challenge, a list of ideas or a recipe...stay tuned every day.

Today's challenge is to start thinking about your family Christmas picture for 2008. If you haven't set something up with a professional photographer, the good ones may be all booked up, but don't fret. I've included a family picture in my cards every year and they've always been taken by someone in my family. Chances are, you have a friend or family member who's qualified to take a picture, too! But it's not that easy...

Here's a checklist for getting a half-decent family picture for your Christmas card this year:
  1. Put some thought into what everyone will wear. It doesn't have to match, everyone doesn't need to wear red and green, but try to coordinate colors a bit. If this doesn't work out the way you planned and the pictures come back with a horrible color but the perfect picture, consider printing them in black and white.
  2. Think of a few different opportunities to have a mini photo shoot. One great time is Thankgiving. Your family might be dressed up(ish) and at the very least you'll be showered and likely wearing some eye make up.
  3. If holidays are too stressful, consider borrowing a neighbor to fill in as a photographer for 15 minutes on a Sunday afternoon. It's best, however, to not only have a photographer, but an assistant who's willing to bounce around behind the cameraman, trying to keep your kids' attention and potentially getting them to even SMILE.
  4. That's another thing: timing is everything. Not only do you want to make sure that the mini-photo shoot isn't right before naptime or a main meal (so the kids don't melt down) - if you want professional-quality lighting, consider taking the picture outdoors, either on an overcast day, in a shaded area, or at dusk, looking away from the sun (so no one is squinting). The lighting is very complimentary and natural-looking.
  5. Once you're dressed, outside at dusk, and the camera and photographer are ready to go...make sure you're equipment is working! Be sure the battery is charged and there's plenty of memory left in your card.
  6. Ask the photographer to take multiple shots, even if they think they got "the good one." I've mentioned before my secret to getting "so many" good pictures of my kids...I take a TON of pictures! It's nice to have a few decent shots to choose from.
  7. If the kids aren't interested in sitting still, begin the photo shoot with pictures of just you and your spouse. We did that last year by accident (I didn't have a recent picture of us alone) and it killed Ryan. "Can I be in the picture? Is it my turn yet?" By the time it WAS his turn, he stood up tall and proud with a huge smile, looking right into the camera. Then all my mom needed to worry about was getting Kaylin to grin.
  8. While the photographer is doing their thing, all grown family members should remain looking at the camera and smiling. I have a few very cute pictures of everyone in my family, except me, because I'm looking down at one of the kids, begging them to cooperate.
  9. Don't dispair if you can't get a shot of everyone looking at the camera and smiling. Some of the sweetest pictures are of families where the kids are looking at each other or hamming it up, as kids their age do. No one will judge you...they'll only empathize!
  10. Two words: Re. Lax. Relax and enjoy the experience. I caught myself once in the middle of getting a picture of my kids together. I was so anxious and uptight, snapping at them to sit still, keep their hands off their face, look at me, sit still again...I realized I was going to raise them to HATE getting photographed and that scared me silent!
My advice is completely from an amateur's perspective, so if you want REAL tips, check out 12 Tips to Taking Great Group Photos. Simple Mom also posted some additional tips and site resources earlier this week. AND just for fun...

Christmas 2003 - This was on a perfectly lit, overcast day in London. I cropped most of the flowers out of the final picture because, let's face it, the scenery was beautiful, but people like seeing YOU in your Christmas picture, not the background! So don't be afraid to get in CLOSE.


Christmas 2004 - Inside, rushed, right before bedtime. What do you expect with a baby, though, really? He wasn't crying, so I considered it a success.


Christmas 2005 - too dark, no fill-flash, sky behind too bright (for the final product, I lightened this, zoomed way in, cropped it and made it B&W)


Christmas 2006 - Again the sky behind was too bright...our faces were in the shade, and we did use a flash, but the bright background is distracting. I cropped this way down, too.


Christmas 2007 - This was the best shot yet! I had this on my wall for almost a year. The staggered look with Ryan standing behind us (even though he grabbed a handful of my hair) is very appealing to the eye.

Christmas 2008 - This could be it, or we may try for a better shot in a week or two. Especially now that my hair is darker. We'll see!


Thursday, November 13, 2008

How to save $$$ at the store

Since I posted about my 78% savings and encouraged everyone to clip coupons last week, I've received a lot of questions from overwhelmed people about where to start and how to do it. So I'm breaking it down for you. This is my system and it might not work for you, but please feel free to steal borrow any of my methods and adjust them to fit your lifestyle. This might look like a lot of work, but I can honestly say that I only spend about an hour or two each week doing everything you're about to read below. That's it. It's not much time compared to the money I save on our bottom line.

The supplies (I always keep these items in my purse or in my car):

- a file-o-fax-type coupon organizer - I wrote in my own categories for separating my coupons - the ones that made sense to me fall in groups like: breakfast, baking, canned goods, seasonings and dry goods, frozen foods, dairy/meat, personal items, baby items, paper products and cleaning supplies.

- a little notebook to write the sales I want to take advantage of.


The process:

1. Clip coupons - If you don't get the paper, now's the time to start. You can order Sundays only for a discounted price or get one at the gas station on Sunday mornings; it's up to you. Just buy one. Or two or three if you want multiple coupons, but one works for me.

* Pull out the coupons and label each bunch of coupons with the date in a visible place on the front.

* Go through and cut out coupons for items that you normally buy. Personally, I'm no longer brand loyal on paper products or toiletries. With the ridiculous sales some of these stores run, you can often get those items for free, but I'm getting ahead of myself...

* Don't ignore teeny little coupons, like $.25 off. Stores go through promotions where they'll double and triple coupons up to $1. I just bought free butter because it was on sale for $1 and I had a $.35 coupon that I almost didn't clip. I have to remind myself of this point every week.

* DON'T throw away the coupons you didn't clip! Just trust me - I hate clutter as much as the next person, but if you keep them altogether in a file in your office (most recent first) you'll thank me later. Hanging onto old coupons has saved me big bucks in the last few weeks and I'm SO glad I finally started doing it. I'll explain why in a minute.


2. File your coupons - do this right away. Seriously - procrastinators, I'm talking to you, too. It takes 2 minutes and you won't be kicking yourself at the store next week wondering where that coupon is that you just KNOW you clipped this weekend.


3. Look through the grocery ads - each Wednesday, the new grocery ads come out and are valid through the following Tuesday. I am no longer in a neighborhood where they send me the ads in the mail, so I have to look up the ads and deals online. The local stores I look at are: Fry's, Albertson's, Basha's and Safeway. I have their weekly ad website saved in my favorites on my computer. I FAR prefer to look through a tangible ad (especially when the store offers coupons in the ad) but for now, I don't have a choice in this.

* I take my little notebook and write down the store sales that I may want on a list. One store at a time, not too overwhelming.

* Sometimes the list for a particular store has 20 things on it, sometimes only 1.

* This IS NOT my grocery list, just a list summing up the good deals for the week.

* Don't assume that because it's in the ad, it's a good deal. The longer you look through ads, the more you'll recognize which are the TRUE deals. TIME SAVINGS TIP: the best deals are usually on the front page.

* If you've never done this before, start here!


4. Look at the drug store ads - These come out on Sundays and run Sunday thru Saturday. If you want to save some serious cash, consider playing the CVS and Walgreens game. It may seem a little complicated, but they want you to bring in your prescriptions BADLY (that's where they make all of their money) so they want to get you in their store. I have attached links that explain the "how tos" for each store: CVS 101 and Walgreens 101. Personally, I shop at CVS more than Walgreens, but just this week, I spent $3.76 at Walgreens for an 8x10 photo, 6 cans of Progresso Soup, 2 packages of pantyliners and 2 cans of pumpkin. My original bill was over $20 before coupons. Even the check out guy was impressed. I had a store coupon PLUS a manufacturer's coupon for each item I bought. Walgreens lets you "stack" those coupons for double savings. I'll talk about that at the end of this post.


5. Look at the blogs that summarize the best deals - Money Saving Mom and The Good Deal Gal do this for a variety of major grocery chains. Sometimes I look at their list before looking at the grocery ads, it just depends. Also, they list deals for Walmart and Target. They're rarely better than your local grocery store, but sometimes they have freebies, too. My last Walmart trip was $7 and I bought $22 worth of stuff!

* The reason you want to do BOTH is because these blogs link to printable coupons that you can use for sale items AND they explain which items you can get for super-cheap with the sale plus coupons. This is where your older, filed coupons will also come in handy. Both of these blogs tell you which week certain coupons were offered.

* So, for example, last week, I saw that Betty Crocker frosting was on sale for $1 at Albertson's. I always bypass those coupons because I prefer to make my frosting from scratch. (I think it's cheaper, tastes better and doesn't have all of the additives.) BUT there was a $.50 coupon available a few weeks back, and Albertson's was doubling coupons last week, so by taking a minute to go back and clip that coupon from my file, the frosting was FREE. She also had a printable coupon link. With birthdays coming up and holiday pot lucks and all, I stocked up on frosting. Because if you invite me to your house, I know you won't care that I made the frosting from scratch. Let's be honest.


6. Write out your shopping list, separating by store. Even if you think you're not going to go to multiple stores, please do this! I can't tell you how many times I've needed to stall for 20 minutes before getting Ryan from school and knew I needed just one thing for dinner tonight, so I ran into the closest grocery store. Looking at my handy list, I knew to also grab buy one, get one free strawberries and 2 boxes of Cheerios with my coupons.


7. Pull out the coupons you plan to use this week. This will save you time and frustration when you're in the store. Even when I go to the store alone and don't have the kids to distract me, it never fails - I run into someone I know and it throws me out of my money-saving, coupon-using, task oriented zone.


A few more tips:

* Look for ways to "stack" coupons - most stores allow you to use a manufacturer's coupon PLUS a store coupon on the same item. Find out your local store's policies because this saves big bucks and sometimes you even get money BACK. CVS paid me $1 to leave with a tube of toothpaste last week. Can't beat that!

* Some stores accept competitor's coupons - my local Albertson's has always done this, but lately, stores are so desperate for our business that many are running "temporary specials" where they take each other's coupons.

* Some stores match ads from other stores - all Super Walmarts ad-match and I know there are others out there that do, too. But I have to warn you: this isn't always as great of a deal as it sounds. Again, Walmart wants you to get in their store so you buy other items from them, usually impulsively. They don't double or triple coupons, which may not seem like a big deal, but it could add $5-10 to your total bill each time. I've spent the better part of the last year only shopping at Super Walmart and can honestly say that I've spent more money doing it that way. Even with ad matching. I still go there for non-sale items, though, because (as a general rule) their prices are usually cheapest.

* Stick to your list. Period. If it's not on the list, you likely don't need it right now. If you're trying to stick to a budget, shop from your list.

* Don't dawdle in the store - Get what you need and leave. I've heard it said that for every extra minute you spend wandering the aisles, you spend an extra $2.50. On a bad day (primarily when Kaylin was younger) I've been known to bring the kids to the Kids Club at my grocery store and slowly walk around with a cart, just to get some peace after a hard day of mothering. I wonder how much extra money I spent doing that?

* Meal plan - I know that seems like a lot of work, but by sitting down for 30 minutes every week and simply writing out what you want to make for dinner each night, you'll avoid the take-out trap (saving money on dining out), you'll save last minute trips to the store because you're out of buns or spaghetti sauce or rice AND you'll waste less food by throwing out things that go bad before you're able to consume them.

I hope these tips have been helpful! Please let me know if you have any questions, but more importantly, if you start doing these things and you save yourself some money. I got a call this weekend from my BFF whose first words on the phone were, "I'M A BELIEVER!" She finally started clipping coupons and saw the money that can be saved. You will be a believer, too, I promise!!!

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Christmas is coming!

Has anyone noticed the new sidebar on the right side of my blog? It's a Christmas countdown. Only 45 days, 11 hours and 10 minutes until Christmas, people!!! Are you ready?!?!?

I love Christmas - for SO many reasons. Ah, yes, it's definitely my favorite holiday.

And I want you to get psyched, too, so stay tuned later this week for a new series of posts I'm doing - The 12 Days of Christmas. It will take you right up to Thanksgiving Day and you'll be all excited too, just in time for Black Friday.

Speaking of, does everyone know why Black Friday is called that? It's not because it's dark when you wake up and get in line outside of Best Buy or Toys R Us. Apparently, the term "Black Friday" has been only traced back to the 1960s. The term originated in Philadelphia in reference to the heavy traffic on that day - I'm assuming from holiday travel in that busy northeastern region? But recently, merchants and the media have used "Black Friday" to refer to the beginning of the period in which retailers are in the black, meaning that they're turning a profit.

I wonder if businesses will actually be in the black this year on Black Friday???

I'm curious - do YOU go out shopping on Black Friday? What kind of sales or deals would make it worth it to set your alarm and rise at the crack of dawn to stand in lines for hours upon hours? In Phoenix, it's chilly at 5am, but it's still bearable. In the colder climates, do you camp out in tents or what?

Friday, November 7, 2008

78% - Grocery SCORE

I'm an admitted Grocery Geek. I've gone through phases; in fact, before kids, I used to go to each local store every week for their individual sales. I've always enjoyed a good savings using coupons and sales.

But today was out of control.

78% people. That is what I saved on our grocery bill. SEVENTY. Eight. Percent.

Now, I understand that most people wouldn't spend $90 on all of this food, mostly because those of us who pay attention understand that, over the years, grocery stores have jacked up their prices so they can offer us "sales" that bring prices back down to where they should be. I mean really! $4 for a box of cereal? Who are they kidding. That's why I love Trader Joe's - they always keeps their prices consistently low. But they don't have coupons, so I'll be shopping there much less now.


I spent $19.15 instead of $90. Again, NINE-TEEN dollars. I took a picture to show Mike because I was so excited, then (of course) realized I could BLOG about this amazing accomplishment. With all humility, I get to proclaim to the world that I COMPLETELY ROCK.

So many of these items were completely free after double/triple coupons. Yes, I realize I won't need to buy Cheerios until 2010, but we don't eat the other cereals that were offered on sale this week, so I stocked up.

I've always been a fan of Money Saving Mom for listing certain store deals with printable coupons to make items free, but recently I discovered The Good Deal Gal who lists grocery ads from many more of my local stores. (if you live on the west coast, here are the links to her ad deals for Albertson's, Fry's, Safeway, CVS and Ralphs) This week, the mega-deals were at Fry's and Albertsons. Albertsons was actually out of Betty Crocker Frosting (which I need for Mike's birthday cake in a couple of weeks) so I'll go back to get that free and stock up on a few more for future birthdays.

I know it seems like a waste to go to different stores throughout the week, but it's really no big deal to stop by a store on my way home from pre-school or the gym. And when Mike decides he's in the mood for hamburgers and stops off to just get buns after work, I tell him to also grab a few sale items and I can get the money back for the coupons the next time I'm there. I used to have this down to a science and it's all coming back to me!


If you're trying to cut costs (and let's face it - right now, who isn't?) please seriously consider clipping coupons and shopping from the sales in your local store. I realize it seems like a pain, but if you're a stay at home mom like me, consider it your (very) part time job. Money that you don't spend is no different than money earned. I spend no more than an hour every 3-4 days clipping coupons, writing down sales and making my grocery lists. Two hours a week is well worth $100+ in savings.

I'm not telling you to buy things just because they're on sale - I don't advocate that at all. Only buy what your family will use. But even if you eat all natural, unprocessed foods (I've relaxed the standards a bit recently in an effort to spend less, as you can see from the Quaker rice cake snacks that were 50 cents) there are still plenty of coupons for paper products, zip lock bags (those Hefty bags in the picture were free with the sale and double coupons), personal items like toothpaste and tampons, even produce occasionally...there are plenty of coupons you WILL use.

Just in case you're not swayed, I'll keep posting my amazing savings to get you on board. I tend to save around 50% of my grocery bill, sometimes more. 78% is unheard of...that's a lot of free food.
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