(This concept could be adapted to break any bad habit your child has: talking back, leaving the door open when they're playing in and out of the backyard, not clearing their place at dinner, missing the bus because of dawdling...the possibilities are endless.)
I loved
this idea so much, as soon as I saw it on Pinterest, I recreated it immediately. And as soon as I was done, I decided to post it on here for all of you fine folks!
The basic idea is this: instead of nagging your kids to put away their toys, shoes, clothes or backpack, give them one warning to put them away, then gather anything that remains into a "ransom box" and require them to earn everything back, one by one.
I've seen many variations of this idea, but none with such entertaining, um, "consequences" as these. Most of the items below are from the original blogger, but I threw in several personalized ideas of my own.
Clean the inside of the van.
Rub dad’s feet for 10 minutes and do, "This Little Piggy" to him.
Rub mom’s feet for 10 minutes and tell her why she’s a great teacher.
Clean your sister’s/brothers’ room.
Wipe down the downstairs bathroom toilet.
Clean a bathroom mirror while singing “This Little Light of Mine”.
Wipe down outside of fridge and have a treat afterwards.
Vacuum kitchen floor.
Scrub upstairs bathtub.
Give Mom or Dad a hug and say, “I will do whatever you say, right away.”
Wipe down walls by garage door.
Wipe down garage door inside and out.
Empty all garbage cans.
Do one chore of Mom or Dad’s choice.
Do one chore of your oldest sibling’s choice.
Do one chore of your youngest sibling’s choice.
Fold socks, towels and underwear in the dryer.
Rub dad’s head for 10 minutes while telling him how thankful you are for him working so hard.
Rub mom’s head for 10 minutes while telling her how thankful you are that she cooks and cleans for you all day long.
Sweep front porch and jog down to the park and back.
Dust the living room.
Clean the back sliding glass door.
You are free but this is a WARNING!
You are free but this is a WARNING!
You are free but this is a WARNING!
Tell both of your siblings 3 things you love about them.
Write 25 times “I will not leave my things out.”
Do 25 jumping jacks while singing, “I am a cleaning machine.”
Race around for 1 minute and put away as many things as you can.
Pick up the entire playroom (or the closet - your choice).
Draw a picture of you picking up things and mom & dad smiling BIG!
Make up a song about a clean house and perform it in front of us.
Make your bed blindfolded.
While hopping on one foot, wipe the kitchen counters off.
Choose two items of yours to donate to Goodwill.
Vacuum the upstairs.
Wipe down the kids’ bathroom sink.
Wipe down Mom and Dad’s bathroom sink.
Scrub the kid's bathroom toilet while singing, "I love cleaning".
Pick up backyard, spin around in circles 3 times and beg your mother for forgiveness.
Sweep the back patio.
Say a scripture verse from memory.
Tell us what you learned in church this weekend while acting it out.
Organize shoes and socks in the kid’s closet.
Bring all of the laundry downstairs and sort it into lights and colors.
Load (or unload) the dishwasher.
Refold the shirts (or pants/shorts) in Jason’s dresser drawers.
Do 15 push ups while singing "Move It" from Madagascar.
I explained this new concept to the big kids and they were laughing so hard at this list that they didn't seem to mind. I plan to go through the house after instructing them to pick up their rooms, the playroom, etc and gather items into the box.
This sounds so much more fun, er...I mean EFFECTIVE than being a nag!
